Film · Intermediate · Sep 14, 2026

나 이 도시를 떠나기로 했어

na i do-si-reul tteo-na-gi-ro hae-sseo

“I've decided to leave this city”

Example line · Korean indie film, bus terminal scene

나 이 도시를 떠나기로 했어na i do-si-reul tteo-na-gi-ro hae-sseo
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Word by word

The line, explained

A character stands at a window looking at Seoul at night, or at a bus terminal with one bag at their feet. They are not asking anyone for advice. The decision has been made, and the ending -기로 했어 is how Korean reports a decision that is already settled. It is plain, almost administrative, and in a film that flatness is exactly where the emotion hides. The audience hears the calm and knows how much it cost.

나 is 'I'. In full it would be 나는 or 내가, but spoken Korean drops the marker constantly, especially when the speaker is the obvious subject. A bare 나 at the start of a line sounds personal and a little heavy, the way 'me, I…' does in English. 이 is 'this', and 도시 is city. 를 marks 이 도시 as the object, the thing being left. Together, 이 도시를 is 'this city', with the quiet suggestion that the speaker could name it but prefers not to.

떠나다 is to leave, to depart from a place or a person. It is one of the most common verbs in Korean lyrics and screenplays because it covers both: 떠나는 사람, the one who leaves; 떠난 자리, the space someone left behind. To build the decision form, drop 다, add -기 to make the verb a noun (떠나기, 'leaving'), then 로 (by way of) and 하다 (do). 떠나기로 하다 is literally 'do by way of leaving', which is how Korean says 'decide to leave'.

했어 is 하다 in the casual past, so 떠나기로 했어 is 'I decided to leave' or 'I've decided to leave'. The pattern works the same on every verb because -기 does not care about vowels or consonants: 가기로 했어, 먹기로 했어, 잊기로 했어. To decide not to do something, negate first: 떠나지 않기로 했어, I decided not to leave. It also covers decisions made together: 우리 내일 만나기로 했어, we arranged to meet tomorrow.

Compare the alternatives. 떠날 거야 is 'I'm going to leave', a plan. 떠날게 is 'I'll leave', a promise to the listener. 떠나기로 했어 is a decision, reported after the fact, with no room left to argue. That is why screenwriters use it at the point of no return. Say it flat, the way the character would: na i do-si-reul tteo-na-gi-ro hae-sseo. The lack of drama is the drama.

Grammar · -기로 했어

“I decided to …”

Verb stem + -기로 하다 means 'decide to', and in the past tense -기로 했어 is 'I decided to / I've decided to'. -기 turns the verb into a noun, 로 is 'by way of', 하다 is 'do'. It attaches to every stem the same way (가기로, 먹기로, 떠나기로). For 'decided not to', use -지 않기로 했어. It also covers agreements: 우리 내일 만나기로 했어, we arranged to meet tomorrow.

  • 담배를 끊기로 했어.I've decided to quit smoking.
  • 우리 내일 만나기로 했어.We arranged to meet tomorrow.
  • 더는 울지 않기로 했어.I decided not to cry anymore.

Why it hits

Korean films love the leaving-the-city scene: a bus terminal, one bag, a decision already made. -기로 했어 is the grammar of that scene, because it does not announce a plan so much as report a verdict the character has already handed down to themselves.

Practice

Make it yours

Swap one word and the line becomes your own.

나 이 도시를 떠나기로 했어

I've decided to leave this city

Quick check

Which sentence means 'We decided to meet tomorrow'?